Seeking an open-minded friend

First name

Chandra

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am a non-binary person--I naturally look more masculine, but I see myself as more feminine, and I tend to identify with and embody more feminine qualities. I am a quiet person and rather introverted. Sharing these intimate aspects of myself with random people on the internet is not easy for me. I am frequently told that I'm a kind person, and I've learned to see the good in most people. Having said that, I also do my best to keep those who like a lot of drama in their lives at arm's length. I love to read and meditate, and I'm quite content at home, but I also love the outdoors. I don't do any drugs, and I don't drink unless I am induced by others on a special occasion like New Year's. I am a financially responsible person with a successful career.

As for what I am looking for in a partner, I find most people who want to connect with me to be pretty lovable and to have many good qualities, and I assume that would be true of anyone browsing a site like this, so I don't have a list of demands or expectations. I do prefer a woman or a more feminine type of person. It should probably go without saying, but I am posting here because I would like to find someone who is comfortable with my femininity, including my enjoyment of silk and satin and lace and dresses. I would like to find someone who, like me, is straightforward, sincere, open-minded, and committed to maintaining open communication.

I'm not sure what else to say, so perhaps I'll come back to this after I've given it more thought.

Sign

Aquarius

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 8 (1.73 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Single

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Job Title Is

I help people.

I Make This Much In A Year

$60,000USD To $74,999USD

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Nerd

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Dining, Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Theater, Travel, Camping, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Meeting someone I feel so at home with that it doesn't feel like a first date, and having a conversation I don't want to end because I'm thinking, "How have I lived this many years without talking to you?"

I've Always Wanted To Try

Spending a few months at a remote Buddhist monastery in Thailand. Snuggling up with a woman while we're both wearing pretty satin PJs or nightgowns. I realize neither of those are things I should be putting in a dating profile, but I may as well be honest.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Buddhist / Taoist

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

To live simply and bring peace and happiness to the world around me.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Dramas, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Classical, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Soul, Folk, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

Ancient, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Instructional, Religious, Science, Science Fiction

My Idea Of Fun Is

Going for a long walk in the woods on a crisp fall day, swimming at Long Lake with my friend's kiddo in the summertime, meditating, helping people feel better, lying on the beach, visiting Mt. Rainier, dancing to a silly song, playing the dizi

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Oddities, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

I look for people who understand what life is for and why they are living it. People who can see the good in themselves. People who can laugh at themselves and at life. People who want to grow.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed