Looking For A Friend And Maybe More

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Engels

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

This will be long, and I know some people won't like that. It took me years to come to terms with who I am. For years I've had these feelings of femininity inside of me that I tried to ignore, but they never went away. I think this effected my lack of relationships in my life. Just before my 40th birthday, an acquaintance suggested that I explore these feelings and see where it went. This was difficult for me as I had no help or people close to me that I could really talk to.

I really began my transition at about 36 years old to be honest. I started by losing weight through a change of eating habits and lots of walking. I guess the first signs of Candice came at about that time when I started wearing my long hair down instead of tied back all the time. I have always preferred my hair long and my nails long. I am on an herbal hormone regimen, keep myself smooth and nails painted, wear women's clothes and makeup most days now and sleep in nighties. I'm still a work in progress, but I think we all are to one degree or another.

I consider myself more TS than TV or CD at this point, though I know there are girls way more beautiful than I am. This isn't about looks or sex to me, it's about being happy. I care more about being presentable than passable, though I am working on that. If that's not good enough for some people, I really don't care. I just want to be happy. I've never really been in a relationship. Women never seemed all that interested in me, so I didn't dwell on it.

I don't think most women really want somebody like me. They want a man. I can totally understand that. Any woman interested in me will know the truth immediately. I don't hide who I am. Now, if there is a woman out there who is interested, I'd love to talk to you. At this point, friendship is a bigger priority for me, and if it grows from there, then I would hope that would be a good thing for both of us.

I'm interested in meeting others like me too. I know there are a lot of men looking for girls like me too. I've experienced some of that myself as I've gotten more presentable. But most men seem to only want one thing. I know it isn't all of them, but my experiences are I'm either ignored, called a fag by adolescent jerks or it's, "hey baby."

I'm not really looking for a man, but we can still talk. I guess you never know. It's not just about sex to me, and I don't have a lot of experience in that area. I guess sexually I may be bi, but I'd prefer a relationship with a woman who could accept me for me. I really don't need to be with guys and don't find myself thinking about a relationship with one at all, to be honest. Anything more I guess I can discuss with the person wanting to talk to me.

Married people are fine to talk to and be friends with, but I refuse to be a home wrecker. I understand the toll divorce can take on the whole family, and it's not a good thing.
Anyway, a little about myself. I am a writer, I like to get out and walk just about every day. I don't have a lot of friends to talk to, but I have a few. I could always have more though. I don't get out much, but I like to go to the city and the clubs once in a while, movies. Shopping is always fun, even if it's just window shopping. So, those are a few things.

Note: At This point, I am a lurker. I can't quite justify the sub. fee for what is offered here. You can't do much here for that fee, and too many marrieds looking for a hookup. If the right person messages me, I will rejoin to message them back or see if you left hints at how to contact you in your profile.

Sterrenbeeld

Maagd

Mijn Lichaamstype Is

Gemiddeld

Mijn Lengte Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Mijn Ogen Zijn

Hazelnootkleurig

Mijn Ethniciteit Is

Blank

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Nooit getrouwd

Ik Heb Kinderen

Nee

Ik Wil Kinderen

Niet Zeker

Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is

Haar

Mijn Haar Is

Bruin

Ben je bereid te verhuizen?

Ja

Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is

Havo

Mijn specialisatie is

Iets Anders

Mijn functie is:

I am a writer.

Ik Woon

Met Ouder(s)

Bij mij thuis

Is het lekker rustig

Ik Ben Een Roker

Nee

Ik Drink

Ja - Als ik uitga

Op de middelbare school was ik

Buitenstaander

In sociale situaties ben ik

Vriendelijk, Opmerkzaam, Verlegen

Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn

Nachtclubs / Bars, Computers, Dansen, Eten, Fitness, Internet, Spellen, Films, Muziek, Sport, Theater, Tv

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Nachtclubs / Bars, Met Vrienden zijn, Winkelen, Me verkleden, Relaxen, Slapen, Thuis blijven

Een perfecte eerste date is

I think finding a place to have a good conversation would be a good first date. It may be as simple as taking a walk in the park and having a seat on a bench or the grass, going to get a bite to eat or getting a coffee. See if we make a connection, and if not, I'm still open to being friends. I think I'm a good listener. After that, whatever we want want to do, movies, the club, a show, a museum or you make the call. I'm pretty flexible. I'd like to be dressed as pretty as possible. I've acquired several dresses and skirts and shoes and would love to make use of them. If we make a connection, anything's possible.

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

There's probably quite a few things. I'd like to travel the world, but I'm not crazy about dealing with the TSA. I'd probably like to do the thing you've always wanted to try, Maybe you've been waiting for somebody to do it with you?

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Vriendelijk

Mijn Geloof Is

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

Ik Ga Naar Diensten

Nooit

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

To transition as much I can and not let the things I can't afford to do stop me from trying to be the woman I am. To be the best person I can be and be there for friends and loved ones. To find the person I love, who loves me, and make it last and be fulfilling for both of us. Being rich is not the most important thing to me. Love and happiness are what matters.

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Slim, Vriendelijk, Gek, Slapstick

Op tv kijk ik:

Nieuws, Tekenfilms, Drama's, Komedies, Films, Sport, Soaps, Herhalingen

In de bioscoop kijk ik:

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Romantiek, Drama, Gezin, Animatie

Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar

Dance, Pop, Rock, Soul

Ik lees graag

Fantasy, Nieuws, Science Fiction

Mijn Idee Van Plezier is

Taking walks and getting out there, writing, chatting and browsing the internet, shopping, going to clubs or movies, dressing up, relaxing, spending time with my dad or my friends, good conversation, sharing fun experiences with friends and making new memories.

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Empathie, Flirterig, Humor, Intelligentie, Geld, Gevoeligheid, Bedachtzaamheid

Wat zoek je?

I don't know. I suppose it would be nice to meet somebody who is self confident and knows what they want and how to get it. Understanding and caring about the one they're with. Cares about what that person wants, but can take the lead. Friendly. Similar interests. I think the important thing is that we're both happy. I don't know how many people actually do end up dating here, so if we just end up chatting, that's okay too. I think I am a good listener.

Waar ben je naar op zoek?

Een Internet Vriendje, Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid